Decades of research show that a positive relationship between teachers and families rappresents not only a substantial component for an effective school, but also a fundamental variable for a child’s educational success, especially in situations of disadvantage, difficulty and disability. Moving, therefore, from these premises, the objective of this contribution is to share the results of a research experience aimed at investigating, through the development of reflective practices, the significance of the alliance between educational institutions and the family so as to identify, as early as kindergarten, possible itineraries oriented to the realization of full inclusion.